To be Mrs enAhmad.

15 days ago, I was Ijab Kabul kan, dan sah menjadi seorang isteri. Now I have 2 lives to live to the fullest. I’m not sure how this new life will change the old ones. But rather changing anything, I berdoa I will be a better person so that those surrounding me will feel better, behaving better and live well.

"Best tak kahwin?” seems to be the famous question asked. How should I say this…BEST la! X kan nak cakap x best pulak. But I know, marriage means more than just a legal sex. It’s about losing territory in bed, putting the toilet seat down, picking up dirty clothes, sharing a bowl of everything, and most of all...dropping your license to sending smokes signal, erk…

Maybe we are living luxuriously in a penthouse, I don’t feel the pain of being his wife. The time will come, definitely. But while waiting, I pledge to enjoy the moment and not to over-thinking about it. Get the basic strong, and let’s be creative along the way. If only we'd stop trying to be happy we could have a pretty good time, yes?